Ex wife dating other men
Doing nice things for yourself and having some life enjoyment that doesn’t involve your kids makes you a better parent. I don’t want to meet anyone and I’m never getting married again. You’re saying this to protect yourself because you are afraid that you might never meet anyone. Not trying to be a jerk, but no, he or she probably won’t. Don’t feel guilty if you enjoy your time without your kids. It was a very painful time for my son and myself, and I cried for a year after.I was also always checking to see if my ex-husband was still with his mistress. He told me that he tried to break it off many times but she would somehow find a way to sleep with him again.Since our divorce, I don’t care that he had a mistress, since the feeling that he still wants me so much gives me comfort and I feel secure with him. I have tried to date another man, but I couldn’t see the same stability with him.I know I don’t have stability with my ex-husband right now either.
This advice column is a joy for me in so many ways, and yet I find each email like this so painful. The rest of us sadly shake our heads at how you could possibly think of staying with this tool. Do you want your son taking your ex-husband’s treatment of you (and your acceptance–nay, embrace! If he or she is the slightest bit nice to you, you might have moments when you remember how cute he or she was. The thought of having sex with another man/woman is repulsive. When people get divorced, they are vulnerable to getting into bad relationships. If he abused you, or if she cheated on you, yes, it probably is. They probably will, but they will still love both their parents unconditionally, and that’s actually a good thing. I know how to stay away from dysfunctional relationships. Just realize what the relationship is, and DON’T MARRY THE PERSON! When I was married, I was really happy or When I was married, I was really miserable. You were happy at times, so don’t be afraid to remember those times, and you were miserable at times. It will reinforce the fact that you needed to be divorced. For as many people who are telling you it was his/her fault, there are that many people telling him or her it was yours.