Dating insecure man
Let him know that you are in this relationship for the long haul and that you want to learn how to work with him and help him resolve his issues.
Of course, if your insecure boyfriend refuses all help, you may have to end the relationship altogether.
As the relationship progresses, you should both back off a bit and start experiencing some free time, alone time, and time with your friends.
If he starts to get upset that you aren't spending as much time with him as you did, you may be heading towards choppy waters.
But, when you pull back to think about the stories and compare them to the man you see every day, you wonder where this amazing man is. Let's say you get a text from a co-worker about switching hours with him. When he sees the message, he will automatically assume that you are looking to cheat on him.
He will get angry at you and even demand that you remove the co-worker from your phone.
He may even confront your co-worker about contacting you.
No matter what you say to try to convince him that nothing is going on, he will hold any communication you have with another guy against you.
An insecure boyfriend will have a knack at making you feel guilty about anything you might want to do without him.
For example, your sister invited you to join her at the movies for a sisters only night.
You are excited about it, but when you tell your boyfriend he gets moody. He might act out and make you cancel the night out or he might get you to agree to do something for him in exchange for him letting you go out with your sister.
Do you feel confused about the relationship after spending a day or night with him?
Your new boyfriend may be secretly insecure and that can lead to all sorts of relationship problems if you aren't prepared for what is in store. Something happened in their past that caused them to mistrust other people. If you suspect that your guy is harboring insecurities, your first move should be to openly talk about it with him.