Dating by love
Myth: If I don’t feel an instant attraction to someone, it’s not a relationship worth pursuing.Fact: This is an important myth to dispel, especially if you have a history of making inappropriate choices.Myth: I can only be happy and fulfilled if I’m in a relationship or It’s better to have a bad relationship than no relationship.Fact: While there are health benefits that come with being in a solid relationship, many people can be just as happy and fulfilled without being part of a couple.By shedding all pretense, you’ll encourage the other person to do the same, which can lead to an honest, more fulfilling relationship. It’s only natural to worry about how you’ll come across and whether or not your date will like you.But no matter how shy or socially awkward you feel, you can overcome your nerves and self-consciousness and forge a great connection. To combat first-date nerves, focus your attention on what your date is saying and doing and what’s going on around you, rather than on your internal thoughts.
Fact: It’s never too late to change any pattern of behavior.Despite the stigma in some social circles that accompanies being single, it’s important not to enter a relationship just to “fit in.” Being alone and being lonely are not the same thing.And nothing is as unhealthy and dispiriting as being in a bad relationship.Or maybe you're not putting yourself in the best environments to meet the right person, or that when you do, you don't feel confident enough.Whatever the case may be, you can overcome your obstacles and find a healthy romantic relationship.