Dating a divorced dad
If you are dating a divorced man with children, you need to fully understand what you are getting yourself into.It irks me when women date a divorced man and then complain that their boyfriend is paying too much child support and alimony. You have to expect that if your boyfriend has an ex-wife and kids, he must fulfill his financial and parental obligations to his first family.Any decent man will put his kids first before your relationship.
You knew about his obligations to his children before you married him.When I felt bad and bought them a few outfits with my own money and she had the balls to demand I give up the reciepts so she could take them back and use the money for her own needs. When I went 2 winters with out heat so she could get her BOAT FIXED, Go on a cruise, spend the holidays in NEW YORK CITY. Even more sadly though, through all of it I would have not minded as long as the kids had what they needed and not been the least bit bitchy about going with out.The kids have been little more than pawns to a better pay day and yet she has had no time for them as they were not allowed here (her words) but they instead got pawned off on anyone who would take them.I keep my mouth shut and I also keep my money in MY OWN wallet.I will just spend my money on my own kids and thats it! I married my prior divorced daddy of 3 and I have 1 of my own. And I am in total agreement he sure should pay support, my childs bio dad is at ,000.00 behind and Indiana sucks in trying to accomplish anything in the child support division.