American dating a filipina
She wants an emotionally stable man who can handle a relationship without needing mistresses on the side.
Some Filipinas are more motivated by money than others. It helps if a man has the ability to father a child. He should be able to live with her in Philippines or have the capacity to sponsor her if he wants her to come live in his own country. This means physical disabilities you may have will be overlooked as your lady will enjoy taking care of you.
Filipinas are often petite, beautiful, and mature but hide their age so well they look extremely young. This first thing you must understand is that the majority of Filipinas are not gerontophobes.
Gerontophobia is the fear or hatred of the elderly.
The partner to a Filipina needs to have charm, wit and intelligence.
This may seem odd in your culture but is perfectly understandable here. Not everyone is that flexible in the range of ages they prefer.
By age 21 very few will be concerned by any age gap between the lady and her partner of choice.
You should also consider whether you plan to live in Philippines or another country. Investigate the laws of your country before bringing a Filipina wife home with you.
This is a common cultural tradition that will happen regardless of the age of the Filipina.
You can accept or say no to these requests regardless of the age gap between you and your Filipina spouse.